Okay, so this blog is suppose to be for me to write about my waiting journey, and so I'm going to fill you in a bit on what's going on for me, and how the adventure of waiting for my husband to come is going. :) Well everyday is hard. Everyday I wish he was here, just to hold me and tell me that everything will be okay in time, and that I have nothing to have fear about, because someday we will meet, and he will be everything I ever dreamt he would be.
Today I started the book-"Lady In Waiting." Wow! that's a great book, I'm going to learn about Ruth, and what all she went through, and I have the study guide also, so it's definitely going to be a journey for me, but it's going to be fun, because honestly I don't know the story about Ruth, so I'm going to hear about everything she went through.
Something I learned in reading that book is, I need God to be my everything. I need Him to be the one I love with all my heart, because even if my future husband tried, he can't fill the spot that my Heavenly Father can. He's the only one that can hold me in His arms and give me that kind of care that I will forever need. My husband is here for so much more, but there are some things that only my Jesus can fill. I need to give everything I have to my God right now. He will forever keep my heart pure, and safe so the day my husband comes into the picture and tries to win my heart over, it will be pure, and there won't be any scratches on it, or anymore pieces missing because it will forever belong to him.
-Side note. Girls do you want to be pursued? Do you want to have your heart won over by the man that will forever have it? Do you want to be fought for? Do you want to have your man show you how much he loves you by going to your dad and asking permission to even date you? Do you want the first time those three simple but SO strong words said..."I love you!" to have so much more meaning behind it then just saying.."I love you." without really meaning it? Do you want him to be your Hero? The one that protects you, and treats you right? The one that would go to the ends of the earth for you?
What do you look for in a husband? Are looks all that matter to you? Or are you more into what kind of man of God he is? Do you want him to have to dig for your heart and work hard to win you over? Are you holding your heart on your sleeve or hidden in deep inside you?
Now that I've given you some things to think about I will give you my thoughts on these questions...I am after all writing this blog :) These are questions I ask myself often. I want to be pursued, Sweetheart if you're reading this, pursue me. I want to be fought for. I want to be loved and cherished. I want to give my heart away only one other time in my life. I want the next guy to be the one I marry, but you won't get my heart easily. You have to fight for it, and let me know that you're here to stay. I want to see you go to my Dad and ask for permission to date me, and I want to see a friendship build between you and my dad. He is my #1 Hero, you've got to pass his test first! :)
When you are going into a relationship with someone, make sure they past these tests for you. Make sure they are everything you've ever wanted and if not, that perfect guy will come along someday in your life. He's just not the one..Gotta wait a little longer :) But hey, it builds you up with every waiting challenge.
.Princess in Waiting.
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