Taken in a flash.

Truth be told, not many people look at relationships like this. They see dating as something 'fun' to do on the weekends, or when it's convenient for you. That's not what a relationship is. Relationships take work, they are challenging & heart-breaking. But, more than anything--they are rewarding. This statement is so true & when I found it I stood in my tracks. I was raised to look at relationships just as this quote goes--can you picture yourself with that person in a marriage? I wasn't allowed to date til last year, 18 years old, because my parents felt I was old enough by then to make wise decisions.

To be completely honest, at this age, I still don't know what a 'wise choice' is. But, I do know one of the most important things when it comes to seeking out & waiting for my beau, I will not settle.

Girls, please don't settle. Don't let a boy walk into your life & lead you to believe that he can take something that isn't his until there is a ring on your finger promising a forever to you. Just stand firm on your desires, because once something is given it can never be taken back, no matter how many times 'I'm sorry' is said.

.grace.